Secret of Deliberate Creation
Struggle = Scarcity
By Dr. Robert Anthony
Breakthroughs do not happen when we are stressed. They happen when we finally let go and stop struggling. Resisting is at the heart of struggle. Although what we are resisting feels like it is “out there” the resistance is really inside of us. That is, if you are resisting anything you are really resisting yourself.
When we resist something we increase the amount of struggle in our lives and this in turn increases how much scarcity we experience.
When we resist, we make things harder than they have to be. By making things difficult we create struggle and prolong getting where we want to be.
We make things complicated because we are afraid to decide. It is partly our fear of the unknown – what will happen if – and partly our fear of making a mistake. The excuse I hear most from my clients is that are afraid they may make the “wrong” decision. There is the fear that somehow they will permanently be locked into
the consequences of their choices.
But consider this for a moment. What if there are no “wrong” choices, only choices. Even if we don’t make the best choice, we will be guided to what we need to learn.
All great athletes understand this concept. They know they can only anticipate so much, but have to make constant instantaneous decisions IN THE MOMENT as each new situation arises.
So who wouldn’t want to stop struggling? More people than you can imagine. I struggled for most of my life with the illusion of struggle. The power of any illusion is its ability to keep us thinking the illusion is real.
When you give up struggle it involves letting go of both the past and the future to activate what is needed right now.
It is not your hard work that creates the results, but your ability to give up struggling and forcing things to happen.
Flow happens when we accept and embrace “WHAT IS”. Flow happens when we release our death grip on resistance and insistence and instead step back and take more conscious actions.
Flow is the lack of resistance. It is effortless. The magic in life is believing in possibilities and the getting out of your own way.
Today will bring you a new awareness, a lesson or a manifestation that you are making progress – IF YOU LOOK FOR IT! No matter how large or small, please record it in your Evidence Journal. It will only take a few moments and will AUTOMATICALLY put you in the Flow.
A Message from my colleague, Dr. Robert Anthony:
“What stands between you and having what you want? Be honest. A lack of education? A toxic marriage? A bad divorce? You have no relationship and can’t find anyone? A problem employer? You are stuck in a job you hate? Be honest. A medical condition? A weight problem? A lack of money? Be rigorously honest.
“I’m proposing that the real reason that you don’t have what you want is because you are creating your life unconsciously by DEFAULT instead of consciously by DESIGN. Most of the time you are blocking the deliberate creation process because your conscious messages and your unconscious messages are in conflict.
“Am I saying that you are deliberately or consciously sabotaging yourself? Absolutely not; but I am saying that through limited, mostly unconscious beliefs, and negative, unexamined habitual patterns, you are creating your life by DEFAULT.
“You cannot achieve success by simply slapping positive thoughts on top of a lifetime of negative expectations. You need to uncover and release the unconscious obstacles and habitual patterns that hold you back from creating the life you desire. The Secret of Deliberate Creation is designed to do this for you.
“The focus of The Secret of Deliberate Creation is about collapsing the limiting beliefs and unconscious habitual patterns that stand between you and what you want.
“Once you become “conscious” about what is truly happening in your life and why you don’t have what you want, you are destined to live a life that is free of fear, doubt and worry. One in which you feel happy and rejoice soundly in the knowledge that you are meant to thrive; not struggle. A life Consciously Chosen and Deliberately Created that puts you into a “state” of unlimited possibility instead of a state of limitation and unfulfilled desires.”
